“It did not happen TO you, it happened FOR you.”

Relationships are not complicated.

People are complicated and people complicate relationships.

We tend to use our past as excuses for why we do what we do in our present.

“I have triggers, I have trust issues, I have walls, I have fears, I have this and that because this happened to me and that happened to me…and so on…and so on…”

It did not happen TO you, it happened FOR you.
— L

It was meant to teach you something. Learn from it and use it as your gain instead of your loss.

Let go of what happened to you, and let go of who you used to be.

“Your past is a part of who you were, it doesn’t have to be a part of who you are.
— L
Don’t let the bad things that happened TO YOU
take away from the good things that can happen FOR YOU.
— L

Don’t let the bad relationships from your past take away from the good relationship you can have in your present.

You are worthy of a good partner and a good relationship.

Forgive everyone for what they said and for what they did or forgive yourself for what you said and did.

Leave it in the past so that you can move forward into your future.


Set yourself free

Let go of the pain, the fear, the shame, the sadness.

Welcome all the goodness the universe has in store for you.

Remove the bad to create space for the good.

Self Affirmation:

I let go of my past. I let go of what happened.

I forgive everything and everyone because I deserve to release that sadness so that I can receive happiness.

I release it all.