My Magic Moment
As we get older those mind blowing, ahh-inspiring, take your breath away, WOW, no way, I can’t believe it, is this really happening, am I dreaming, somebody pinch me moments become fewer and further in between because we begin to lose the magic of “the new” and the magic of our innocence.
You see, when we are young, everything is new and we are innocent enough that we just except and enjoy. As we get older we become jaded, suspicious, and we lose some of the amusement amidst a world that forces us to be cautious.
So, make sure you stop and celebrate when something (anything) special happens in your life.
Those moments that exhilarate you and release a rush of endorphins happen less and less as adults so, when they do make sure you STOP and really acknowledge and appreciate them.
This post has two purposes:
To thank my loving, kind, sweet, thoughtful, amazing man for taking the time to create this unforgettable moment for me. For making it special beyond belief and doing everything he could to make me feel like the luckiest woman in the world.
Annnnd, to tell you that CHIVALRY IS NOT DEAD and GOOD GUYS DO EXIST. I want you to know that and I want you to wholeheartedly believe that.
If you knew my story (to check it out click on the button —>) you would understand why the people close to me keep telling me, “seeing you two together gives me hope”…and that’s what I want to pass on to you. Hope.
Meeting my fiance’ feels like I won the trophy at the end of the race! It was a loooong road with lots of ups and downs, twists and turns, to get to this point in my life. But, I never gave up hope that I’d get here or that I would find him.
There are 7.7 billion people in the world!!! There has got to be at a minimum 1 person for every person. :)
I like to say, “there’s a someone for everyone”…because there is. You MUST believe it so that you can manifest it.
PLEASE don’t let one or two (or who’s counting) bad relationships ruin your belief that you can have a happy, healthy, successful, fulfilling, and drama-free relationship.
It really eerks me when people say things like, “all relationships are hard”. NO THEY ARE NOT. Stop telling yourself that and stop letting people tell you that. Relationships are not hard, people make relationships hard…and just so people can also make relationships easy.
If you believe that “all relationships are hard” then all your relationships will be hard because you have accepted that is just the way it is. Instead, you must reject that notion and do everything you can to ensure that your relationship is what you want it to be.
Yes, it helps to find a partner who is just as willing and eager as you and they are out there. While you are looking for them, they are looking for you. But, you gotta decide what it is you are even looking for so that you can spot it when you see it. Or, so that you can tell your current partner what you’d like to create with them.
A good relationship only requires two people who decide to believe in love and to believe in each other. Then, each do their part to create everything they want, together.
I would not have what I have if I would’ve stopped believing that it existed, that it was out there, and that it was just a matter of time before I found someone I could create it with. I would have settled for “good enough” instead of “couldn’t be better”.
I want you to know that, my love story in not an anomaly.
May you have the courage to create the life you deserve and desire.
And, may your life be filled with moments that give you a reason to stop and celebrate.
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